This idea, like the preceding one, can be used with any person, situation or event you think is causing you pain. Apply it specifically to whatever you believe is the cause of your upset, using the description of the feeling in whatever term seems accurate to you. The upset may seem to be fear, worry, depression, anxiety, anger, hatred, jealousy or any number of forms, all of which will be perceived as different. This is not true. However, until you learn that form does not matter, each form becomes a proper subject for the exercises for the day. Applying the same idea to each of them separately is the first step in ultimately recognizing they are all the same.
When using the idea for today for a specific perceived cause of an upset in any form, use both the name of the form in which you see the upset, and the cause which you ascribe to it. For example:
I am not angry at ______ for the reason I think.
I am not afraid of ______ for the reason I think.
But again, this should not be substituted for practice periods in which you first search your mind for "sources" of upset in which you believe, and forms of upset which you think result.
In these exercises, more than in the preceding ones, you may find it hard to be indiscriminate, and to avoid giving greater weight to some subjects than to others. It might help to precede the exercises with the statement:
There are no small upsets. They are all equally disturbing to my peace of mind.
Then examine your mind for whatever is distressing you, regardless of how much or how little you think it is doing so.
You may also find yourself less willing to apply today's idea to some perceived sources of upset than to others. If this occurs, think first of this:
I cannot keep this form of upset and let the others go.
For the purposes of these exercises, then, I will regard them all as the same.
Then search your mind for no more than a minute or so, and try to identify a number of different forms of upset that are disturbing you, regardless of the relative importance you may give them. Apply the idea for today to each of them, using the name of both the source of the upset as you perceive it, and of the feeling as you experience it. Further examples are:
I am not worried about ______ for the reason I think.
I am not depressed about ______ for the reason I think.
Three or four times during the day is enough.
๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐พ, ๐ค๐ฒ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฏ, ๐๐จ๐ฏ ๐๐ฐ ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ง๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐๐ป๐๐ฉ๐ฏ, ๐๐ฆ๐๐ต๐ฑ๐๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐น ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ฏ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ท๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ฑ๐ฏ. ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ฆ ๐ ๐ข๐ช๐๐ง๐๐ผ ๐ฟ ๐๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐ท๐ ๐ ๐๐น ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐, ๐ฟ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ค๐ฆ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ช๐๐ง๐๐ผ ๐๐ป๐ฅ ๐๐ฐ๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐๐๐ผ๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐ฟ. ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ฑ ๐๐ฐ๐ฅ ๐ ๐๐ฐ ๐๐ฝ, ๐ข๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฆ, ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ฉ๐ฏ, ๐จ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฉ๐๐ฆ, ๐จ๐๐๐ผ, ๐ฃ๐ฑ๐๐ฎ๐ฉ๐, ๐ก๐ง๐ค๐ฉ๐๐ฆ ๐น ๐ง๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฏ๐ณ๐ฅ๐๐ผ ๐ ๐๐น๐ฅ๐, ๐ท๐ค ๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ค ๐๐ฐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฐ๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ผ๐ฉ๐ฏ๐. ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ต. ๐ฃ๐ฌ๐ง๐๐ผ, ๐ฉ๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐ค ๐ฟ ๐ค๐ป๐ฏ ๐๐จ๐ ๐๐น๐ฅ ๐๐ณ๐ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐๐ผ, ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐น๐ฅ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ณ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฉ ๐๐ฎ๐ช๐๐ผ ๐๐ณ๐๐ก๐ง๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฑ. ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐๐พ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฅ ๐๐ง๐๐ผ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐ป๐๐ ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ณ๐ค๐๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ฉ๐๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฑ ๐ธ ๐ท๐ค ๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ฅ.
๐ข๐ง๐ฏ ๐ฟ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐พ ๐ ๐๐ฉ๐๐ฑ ๐ ๐ฉ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฐ๐๐ ๐๐ท๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ง๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐๐น๐ฅ, ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ด๐ ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฑ๐ฅ ๐ ๐ ๐๐น๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ฐ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐, ๐ฏ ๐ ๐๐ท๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฒ๐ ๐ ๐ฆ๐. ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐ค:
๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐จ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐จ๐ ______ ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐ฒ ๐๐ฆ๐๐.
๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ ๐ ______ ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐ฒ ๐๐ฆ๐๐.
๐๐ณ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฏ, ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐๐ฐ ๐๐ณ๐๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ต๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐จ๐๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฝ๐พ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ป๐๐ ๐๐ป๐ ๐๐น ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ ๐ "๐๐น๐๐ฉ๐" ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐, ๐ฏ ๐๐น๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ณ๐ค๐.
๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐๐ฐ๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฉ๐, ๐ฅ๐น ๐๐จ๐ฏ ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฏ๐, ๐ฟ ๐ฅ๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฃ๐ธ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฉ๐, ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฑ๐๐ผ ๐ข๐ฑ๐ ๐ ๐๐ณ๐ฅ ๐๐ณ๐๐ก๐ง๐๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐ผ๐. ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฃ๐ง๐ค๐ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ฐ๐ ๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฑ๐๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฏ๐:
๐๐บ ๐ธ ๐ฏ๐ด ๐๐ฅ๐ท๐ค ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐๐. ๐๐ฑ ๐ธ ๐ท๐ค ๐ฐ๐๐ข๐ฉ๐ค๐ฆ ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ป๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ฐ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐.
๐๐ง๐ฏ ๐ฆ๐๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐๐น ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ช๐๐ง๐๐ผ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ, ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ธ๐๐ค๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ ๐น ๐ฃ๐ฌ ๐ค๐ฆ๐๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฟ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ด.
๐ฟ ๐ฅ๐ฑ ๐ท๐ค๐๐ด ๐๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐น๐๐ง๐ค๐ ๐ค๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ค๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฒ ๐๐ฉ๐๐ฑ'๐ ๐ฒ๐๐พ ๐ ๐๐ณ๐ฅ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฐ๐๐ ๐๐น๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐ผ๐. ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ป๐, ๐๐ฆ๐๐ ๐๐ป๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐:
๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐น๐ฅ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฏ ๐ค๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ด.
๐ ๐ ๐๐ป๐๐ฉ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฉ๐, ๐๐ง๐ฏ, ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ธ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฅ ๐ท๐ค ๐จ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ฅ.
๐๐ง๐ฏ ๐๐ป๐ ๐๐น ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ ๐ ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ฅ๐น ๐๐จ๐ฏ ๐ฉ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ ๐น ๐๐ด, ๐ฏ ๐๐ฎ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ง๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฒ ๐ฉ ๐ฏ๐ณ๐ฅ๐๐ผ ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ผ๐ฉ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐น๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ ๐ธ ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ป๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฟ, ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐๐ธ๐๐ค๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ค๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐๐น๐๐ฉ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฟ ๐ฅ๐ฑ ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฅ. ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐พ ๐ ๐๐ฉ๐๐ฑ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฅ, ๐ฟ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฑ๐ฅ ๐ ๐๐ด๐ ๐ ๐๐น๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ณ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฐ๐ ๐ฆ๐, ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ค๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐๐๐๐ฝ๐พ๐ฏ๐ ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ป๐๐ผ ๐ฆ๐๐๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐ค๐ ๐ธ:
๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ ______ ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐ฒ ๐๐ฆ๐๐.
๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฅ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ ______ ๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ฉ๐ฏ ๐ฒ ๐๐ฆ๐๐.
๐๐ฎ๐ฐ ๐น ๐๐น ๐๐ฒ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ผ๐ฆ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฑ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ณ๐.